I realized that a couple of posts ago, I mentioned that I lost my job back in June. I mentioned that fact, but never told the story behind it. So here is the story. Not because you need to know every detail of my life, but because it is a cool story, and I learned a lot from the experience.
I've heard about the importance of giving thanks, of feeling gratitude, even in difficult circumstances. I've even taught about the importance of being thankful. But what does it really look like?
I've spent the last three years as an online English teacher. It has been a great job that has worked really well with being a stay-at-home-mom. But it's been a 9 month gig, meaning that during the summer months, when I wasn't actively teaching, I was also not bringing in money. Coming into summer of 2017, this was a concern.
Teaching, however, takes a lot of prep work. It's easiest if the prep work is all done in advance. I was hopeful that I could spend the summer prepping for my classes, and get paid during those months for developing the curriculum. If I could get that portion of my income during the summer months, that would help. I contacted my supervisor to float the idea, and waited to hear back.
And waited.
I sent a reminder email or two, trying hard not to pester. But I needed to know! Finally, on June 29th, two hours before my daughter's birthday party, and as I was putting my 3 y.o. down for a nap, the email came.
I saw it on my phone, with the first part of the email in the subject line, "Due to..."
Instantly the thought hit me, "I've been fired."
"Don't be silly," I told myself. "Actually read the email."
So I did.
I had been fired.
More accurately, my program had been discontinued, and my services were no longer needed. I was wished good luck in my future endeavors, and that was it.
I was not particularly surprised. But I was a bit stunned. It took a minute for the stunned feeling to die down, and then I felt...excited.
Excited? Really?!
Actually, yeah. It felt like God had reached down and plucked that job right out of my schedule, opening my time up to any number of fantastic opportunities.
And I couldn't wait to figure out what those opportunities were.
My husband didn't have the same reaction. I called and told him right away. In retrospect, I should have waited. Maybe it didn't matter. He was already feeling stress from the summertime financial pinch. The only way that he could see to ease that stress was for me to get paid something during the summer. And now, not only was that opportunity gone, but a portion of our income that we had relied on was now also cut off.
It was a rough few days for him.
Somehow, I didn't succumb to the dread. I had been feeling driven to share my knowledge and experience with the Laws of Thought. I had written a few articles on those laws, and I started writing the rest (I had planned a series of 8 articles, which you can read here). I contacted Leslie Householder to ask about (finally!) teaching a Genius Bootcamp (I had certified to teach it 5 years ago, and had nearly given up all hope!). As much as I hoped there was a way for me to bring in money by doing what I love (teaching and mentoring), I mostly just wanted to help people, whether I got paid to do so or not.
It has been really interesting what opportunities have presented themselves since I was so excited about no longer having a job. I met a woman who asked me to tell her my story. I told a little bit, ending with something about needing money to help my family. She replied, "Have you heard of Norwex?" Norwex ended up earning us over $500 that month. My Genius Bootcamp wrapped up just a few days ago, and was a very successful event, both for me and those who participated. And just a few days after that, a job opportunity seriously landed in my lap when I went to discuss a different matter with my children's principal.
Not every day since that fateful firing day have been exciting. This is still life, after all (Law of Rhythm). But I'm convinced that being able to see that circumstance through the eyes of optimism and gratitude had EVERYTHING to do with the opportunities that presented themselves later on.
Will I be able to face every discouraging blow with that same kind of excitement? Not likely. I'm still learning and practicing living by these laws. But I know it's POSSIBLE. And I know that because I lived it.
I've heard about the importance of giving thanks, of feeling gratitude, even in difficult circumstances. I've even taught about the importance of being thankful. But what does it really look like?
I've spent the last three years as an online English teacher. It has been a great job that has worked really well with being a stay-at-home-mom. But it's been a 9 month gig, meaning that during the summer months, when I wasn't actively teaching, I was also not bringing in money. Coming into summer of 2017, this was a concern.
Teaching, however, takes a lot of prep work. It's easiest if the prep work is all done in advance. I was hopeful that I could spend the summer prepping for my classes, and get paid during those months for developing the curriculum. If I could get that portion of my income during the summer months, that would help. I contacted my supervisor to float the idea, and waited to hear back.
And waited.
I sent a reminder email or two, trying hard not to pester. But I needed to know! Finally, on June 29th, two hours before my daughter's birthday party, and as I was putting my 3 y.o. down for a nap, the email came.
I saw it on my phone, with the first part of the email in the subject line, "Due to..."
Instantly the thought hit me, "I've been fired."
"Don't be silly," I told myself. "Actually read the email."
So I did.
I had been fired.
More accurately, my program had been discontinued, and my services were no longer needed. I was wished good luck in my future endeavors, and that was it.
I was not particularly surprised. But I was a bit stunned. It took a minute for the stunned feeling to die down, and then I felt...excited.
Excited? Really?!
Actually, yeah. It felt like God had reached down and plucked that job right out of my schedule, opening my time up to any number of fantastic opportunities.
And I couldn't wait to figure out what those opportunities were.
My husband didn't have the same reaction. I called and told him right away. In retrospect, I should have waited. Maybe it didn't matter. He was already feeling stress from the summertime financial pinch. The only way that he could see to ease that stress was for me to get paid something during the summer. And now, not only was that opportunity gone, but a portion of our income that we had relied on was now also cut off.
It was a rough few days for him.
Somehow, I didn't succumb to the dread. I had been feeling driven to share my knowledge and experience with the Laws of Thought. I had written a few articles on those laws, and I started writing the rest (I had planned a series of 8 articles, which you can read here). I contacted Leslie Householder to ask about (finally!) teaching a Genius Bootcamp (I had certified to teach it 5 years ago, and had nearly given up all hope!). As much as I hoped there was a way for me to bring in money by doing what I love (teaching and mentoring), I mostly just wanted to help people, whether I got paid to do so or not.
It has been really interesting what opportunities have presented themselves since I was so excited about no longer having a job. I met a woman who asked me to tell her my story. I told a little bit, ending with something about needing money to help my family. She replied, "Have you heard of Norwex?" Norwex ended up earning us over $500 that month. My Genius Bootcamp wrapped up just a few days ago, and was a very successful event, both for me and those who participated. And just a few days after that, a job opportunity seriously landed in my lap when I went to discuss a different matter with my children's principal.
Not every day since that fateful firing day have been exciting. This is still life, after all (Law of Rhythm). But I'm convinced that being able to see that circumstance through the eyes of optimism and gratitude had EVERYTHING to do with the opportunities that presented themselves later on.
Will I be able to face every discouraging blow with that same kind of excitement? Not likely. I'm still learning and practicing living by these laws. But I know it's POSSIBLE. And I know that because I lived it.
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